But is that even in the alleged victim’s statements? I thought she said she thought he was cute, allowed some physical contact and then drew the line (internally/without telling him) after the fact?
I won’t comment on the law or anything else, and I’ve been vocal that I’m very skeptical of this alleged victim’s opinion that the person who allegedly sexually assaulted her was TSJ. However, I’ll say emphatically that a culture where girls expect men to “make the first move” cannot coexist with laws written like this. And most girls 110% still judge men by the level of “courage” they have to “make the first move.”
Would 99.9% of men be in this situation? No. But if we are going to create laws that try to aggressively protect women against unwanted advances, specifically in public places, then we somehow have to dispel the notion that men must approach women first and be brave otherwise they are “not desirable.” And right now, I feel we’re in a toxic transition period.